Yes, passionate, energetic, never-knew-my-body-could-bend-that-way sex might keep your love life feelin' fresh. But if you want to figure out your body and what absolutely gives you an orgasm every time, starting smaller can yield big results. To add more directed friction to woman-on top, try pulling out a few times so they're completely outside of you and slide your lubed up vulva over the underside of their penis. Experiment with long up-and-down strokes over their shaft, short side-to-side motions, or rub the head of their penis around your clitoris to see what's gonna do it for you. They'll last longer and you will get more intense stimulation exactly where you want it. And when they're inside you, keep it going.
Much like with stand-up, in the bedroom, I had beginner's luck that gave me a false impression of my abilities. In college, I hooked up with a woman who lost her shit at my slightest touch. How could I not think I was truly the gangster of love? Alas, other women didn't experience complete particle reversal by simply having me blow in their ear.
These Are the Moves That Really Make Women Orgasm, According to Science
It's the only thing that feels better than diving into a cool lake on a sweltering day, biting into a juicy cheeseburger when you're starving, or even getting your wallet back after losing it on vacation abroad. An orgasm is that good. Which is why it bites that it doesn't happen more often.
Skip to content. I am a sexually active female, but I can't reach orgasm when having sex with my boyfriend. Can you help me out?