Ah, oral sex … the first posts I wrote about it were oh-so-popular. Indeed, some scholars believe that the lovers mention oral sex poetically in Song of Songs with these verses:. Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. I have come into my garden, my sister, my bride; I have gathered my myrrh with my spice. I have eaten my honeycomb and my honey; I have drunk my wine and my milk.
I do believe that according to this passage in Hebrews, that God is sanctioning sex in marriage, and that it is honorable and right for a husband and wife to enjoy sex with each other. I also believe that God tells married people that they should not deny sex to their spouse except for a short time when one or both of them have devoted themselves to a time of fasting and prayer. Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband.
This is a serious question, and I will answer it as best I understand the Scriptures. The first thing we must say is that the Bible does not directly address this question. The Bible is clear on sexual fidelity e.