Everyone I seem to talk to has the same feeling: Dating has become so hard. It seems like nobody wants to commit anymore, and it seems to be a challenge every single step of the way. You can blame the dating apps. You can blame Tinder, and Bumble, and Hinge, and all the choices that people have. Because for the very, very first time in history, men and women have a ridiculous amount of choices available to them.
Most things get better with time. Equal rights, technology, medicine, education. Or were we better off during a simpler era? Why is it so difficult for people to say what they mean, and mean what they say? Literally one of the first things we are taught as children, seems to go by the wayside the second we step into the dating scene. Life and dating would be so much simpler if we actually knew what someone else was thinking.
W hen you think about it, despite feeling difficult, the problems people struggle with in dating sound pretty trivial. And we stall. Generally speaking, if someone practices piano daily for two years, they will eventually become quite competent at it.
It could mean they want to be friends with you or date you or fuck you. No one knows. They want to wear makeup in elementary school, have sex in middle school, and move into their own apartment in high school. They want to be single for as long as possible to keep their options open.