One main thing that puts most women off having anal sex is the fear that it will hurt, or that the experience has been painful in the past. In fact it can be very pleasurable when it is performed right. Pleasurable anal sex requires maturity, understanding and preparation; which means lots of foreplay and having plenty of patience. Using the right sex positions can also help to make the experience a good one.
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So, I decided to write a brief recollection of my experience. It happened about 8 years ago. So every time I desire anal sex, I usually go through the same steps. Here were the steps I took before engaging in my first anal sex, anal intercourse experience. It actually took a few months before my boyfriend penetrated my ass with his cock. Cleansing usually consists of emptying my bowels, or at least trying. Quite often during any kind of initial anal penetration, I feel like I have to move my bowels.