Marriage is the ultimate bond between two partners. You made a vow to love one another for better or for worse, but sometimes things become strained. Perhaps you had a bad fight, you feel yourselves drifting apart, or you may have simply reached a point where you realize you need to improve the relationship. Relationships require work and commitment to keep your love for one another strong, and marriage is no exception. With a little effort, some understanding, and a bit of patience, you and your spouse can improve your marriage and remember why you pledged your love to one another. Save up for the things you each dream about.
Some men love watching other guys have sex with their wives
W hen we break up with our ex husband or ex wife, it as if the whole world turns upside down. The pain and turmoil can affect us in way that we can never imagine. Days and weeks can go by as we second guess whether we did the right thing. Often, it seldom matters whether you initiated the break up or was the one that got dumped by your ex husband or ex wife. But then, seemingly, out of nowhere, something happens which puts the two of you together and these confusing feelings of sexual attraction can come over you. Suddenly, you are in a place where you wonder if you should sleep with your spouse. Sometimes the feelings you are experiencing toward your ex husband or ex wife comes from a need to feel attractive again.
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We are in our early forties with three teenage kids and our year marriage is mostly happy. On the way home my wife asked if I wanted to give it a try. I rang my mate the next day and asked if we could join in a session with them. We went to their house the next weekend and after sharing a few bottles of wine we went to their bedroom. I was kissing his wife and then having sex with her but what I was really focused on was hearing my wife enjoying herself.